March 29, 2025 3:17 PM EDT
Yes there always is, they are usually the same as a matter of fact, you can't just make up those rules set up from your bosses in life like your wife perhaps because eventually if you lie to those people to their faces trying to brainwash them into thinking your the boss now, it may get you in a whole lot of trouble in the court of law and end up in a bad situation when it didn't need to be which turns into a huge fight in the end, and they will have to tell the truth in the end so why lie about it right from the beginning of any relationship?
Those that do this will eventually turn others into demons, bad people I mean here so let's not play the stupid cards ok? If you don't know the rules ask someone for advice instead of taking it upon yourself to make yourself look bad to others at home and at the work place, life doesn't always have to be a fight does it?
Just say sorry I didn't know and move on with your life if that is the truth that you didn't know, but were you speaking the truth?
There are no half halves in the world its all or nothing, and your only hurting yourselves if you do this as a good person at work cause your getting paid to do so and then at home life is very different isn't it?
And eventually you will get caught is all I am trying to say and you can only blame yourself in this case, yep no one else and it's up to you to do something about it, because you've just put your life on hold because of it like it's a one of when it probably isn't it?
Because whoever you did this this to might have seen you at a certain level and now see's you another way and you will regret that decision as most do but life is about learning right? You can only be mad at yourself cause your credibility with that person may have just flew out the window just like that because of it.
You can't have your cake and eat it too right? No you can't.
And if you love this person go and tell them, they will always understand your feelings as most good people would under any circumstances because it's between the 2 of you no one else.
People that do this to the ones you love most, are your rock actually and will always understand your feelings and not the others that have slid you into their own hell because they will keep playing that same record with you on a daily basis until you get mad enough to sever the relationship and it was all for not, you may have lost a good woman or man that will always listen and the relationship your in now was just a waste of time and money in the end and amounted to a joke on a daily basis because they lied to you from day 1 of the relationship, the sex trap, something of which disgusts me, temptation over doing the right things for yourself trying to make others jealous really is what that is cause their intentions were always bad, not good bring you down to their own level of shame, lies and deception and no one in the world will tolerate that, ever.
Life's too short to be unhappy isn't it?
So why should others have to pay for something someone else did to you?
They shouldn't eh? So why keep playing that same record on a daily basis?
Stop enabling others to make you feel bad enough to be like those people, you can always decide to change can't you? Yep you should do whatever makes you feel good not what others think you should do, your not those people are you, your only making yourself mad really?
No then why treat yourself this way then?
You can never move forward in your life this way, no you cant and you know what to do if it's in your control to do so but temptation of living with someone elses bs and baggage is easier right?
Your further ahead even if that person you know is a good person and you know this to be fact, it costs nothing to love someone and be kind to them and speak about your own feelings in person always is a good suggestion.
Because again Life is too short to be unhappy isn't it?
Only you can decide these things for yourself really.
Life is about good communication really, and speaking the truth to each other and most don't know how to do this properly, there always has to be an ulterior motive well there isn't when it comes to me, life is hard enough without the cost of losing someone you love for real isn't it?
No one see's the value in what love has to offer anyone, it's sad really it is.
When is it time you stop beating a dead horse? When?
Take your losses and move on with your life with someone or a job that does makes you happy.
And you can only make so much money at a job right, so start a business with someone that knows the business game well, and ask questions about it. Make a plan with them.
This post was edited by Lorne Friesman at March 29, 2025 3:21 PM EDT
Yes there always is, they are usually the same as a matter of fact, you can't just make up those rules set up from your bosses in life like your wife perhaps because eventually if you lie to those people to their faces trying to brainwash them into thinking your the boss now, it may get you in a whole lot of trouble in the court of law and end up in a bad situation when it didn't need to be which turns into a huge fight in the end, and they will have to tell the truth in the end so why lie about it right from the beginning of any relationship?